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What is a Systemic Constellation?

Feeling in harmony with ourselves and our social network is an ideal, which many of us dream of. Why can't we achieve this state of mind so easily?

Simply because we all belong to different systems and in each system we find ourselves in a different space.

As siblings we were born according to a certain order of time. The eldest was born first and will thus have other responsibilities as the last born within the family system.

Parents found themselves together always prior to their children’s birth. They should be honoured by their children as the more mature persons. "Mother, Father, you are bigger than I am."

Taking up our place will let us feel more complete and balanced. Why, in many circumstances do we feel out of place? It could be, that we are carrying an unresolved matter with a deep rooted sense of love from generations before us. Or we could represent a member, which had been excluded by members of our system. We all have a right to belong.

In relationships we exercise the order of exchange. When this exchange is in balance, we find it pleasing. If, however, one party gives more than the other party is able to return, an imbalanced situation will cause friction.

At the workplace we might find ourselves mobbed by colleagues who do not respect us. What could the reason be?

The effects of war atrocities, large scale displacements, changes of regimes and their effects on societies, influence not only the contemporary generations, but also their descendants.

All these areas of conflict can be set up in a constellation. We choose representatives who stand in for the field of conflict. The constellation facilitator is trained to uncover the hidden symmetry, if the system allows her to do so.

By simply acknowledging the situation as it is, whilst observing from the periphery the unfolding process of a constellation, we might find unexpected perspectives, which may lead us to healing solutions. Solution orientated perspectives may unleash hope in us, which more likely may reflect in a brighter outlook towards life. Thus healing may find its soothing way into the system we belong to. We might find it easier to take our place, become more aware and thus more careful in the process of mutual exchange situations with others and ultimately be able to honour those who have earned seniority prior to us. The need to exclude others from our system will ultimately transform into a healing connectedness with all members who have a right to belong to our system.

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I offer

One-to-one Consultations

Family constellations


Organisational constellations


Online and Face-to-Face


Break through personal and/or professional blockages by addressing issues at their source

  • The Order of Love
  • The Order of Time
  • The Order of Belonging
  • The Order of Exchange
  • The Order of Helping
  • Family bonds and ancestral inheritance
  • Organisational bonds and loyalties
  • Loyalty and trust
  • Developing presence, awareness and clarity
  • Fostering of perception and stillness
  • Energy, order and reality
  • Acknowledgement of the Hidden Symmetry

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Monika von Wietersheim

About your Systemic Constellations Facilitator

Monika G. von Wietersheim

Every human being deserves to live a fulfilled life, optimally utilizing and applying their talents and skills.

With this in mind, I inspire my clients to discover their inner resources, encourage them to unlock their talents, equip them with new skills, all of which will enable them to experience a life full of abundance - spiritually, emotionally and professionally.

To achieve this, I am offering one-on-one counselling, I facilitate seminars, transfer my skills according to the individual needs and conduct advanced training in Namibia, South Africa and on virtual platforms.

The core value is respectful and unconditional facilitation in the service of the flow of life.

My professional path:
I hold a Bachelor of Arts degree (UNISA) majoring in History and Psychology and offer systemic constellations since 2003. My extensive accumulated knowledge and experiences as merchant in literature, financial accountant, as well as Distinguished Toastmaster and Leadership Trainer, enhance my areas of activity in the fields of:

  • Systemic Family and Organisational Constellations
  • Leadership Training
  • Life Coaching
  • I am an accredited systemic family and organisational constellational facilitator and had the privilege to have been trained by Bert Hellinger, Dr Albrecht Mahr, Dr Gunthard Weber, Hunter Beaumont, Dr Guni Leila Baxa, Jakob Schneider amongst others at the International Bert Hellinger Association in Zist, Germany.

    I developed my passion for education during my time working as Waldorfkindergarten teacher. Thereafter I continuously strove to be involved in the development of the education of my own children as well as the people in my community and further afield. While serving as Chairperson of the School Board of the Namib Primary School in Swakopmund, Namibia, I was a founding member of the Sonnenkinder project e.V., whose mission it was to find foster parents from Germany for disadvantaged children from marginalised economic communities.

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