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What is a Systemic Constellation?

Feeling in harmony with ourselves and our social network is an ideal, which many of us dream of. Why can’t we achieve this state of mind so easily?

Simply because we all belong to different systems and in each system we find ourselves in a different space.

As siblings we were born according to a certain order of time. The eldest was born first and will thus have other responsibilities as the last born within the family system.

Parents found themselves together always prior to their children’s birth. They should be honoured by their children as the more mature persons. “Mother, Father, you are bigger than I am.”

Taking up our place will let us feel more complete and balanced. Why, in many circumstances do we feel out of place? It could be, that we are carrying an unresolved matter with a deep rooted sense of love from generations before us. Or we could represent a member, which had been excluded by members of our system. We all have a right to belong.

In relationships we exercise the order of exchange. When this exchange is in balance, we find it pleasing. If, however, one party gives more than the other party is able to return, an imbalanced situation will cause friction.

At the workplace we might find ourselves mobbed by colleagues who do not respect us. What could the reason be?

The effects of war atrocities, large scale displacements, changes of regimes and their effects on societies, influence not only the contemporary generations, but also their descendants.

All these areas of conflict can be set up in a constellation. We choose representatives who stand in for the field of conflict. The constellation facilitator is trained to uncover the hidden symmetry, if the system allows her to do so.

By simply acknowledging the situation as it is, whilst observing from the periphery the unfolding process of a constellation, we might find unexpected perspectives, which may lead us to healing solutions. Solution orientated perspectives may unleash hope in us, which more likely may reflect in a brighter outlook towards life. Thus healing may find its soothing way into the system we belong to. We might find it easier to take our place, become more aware and thus more careful in the process of mutual exchange situations with others and ultimately be able to honour those who have earned seniority prior to us. The need to exclude others from our system will ultimately transform into a healing connectedness with all members who have a right to belong to our system.

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One-to-one Consultations


Family & Organisational Constellations


Break through personal and/or professional blockages by addressing issues at their source

  • The Order of Love
  • The Order of Time
  • The Order of Belonging
  • The Order of Exchange
  • The Order of Helping
  • Family bonds and ancestral inheritance
  • Organisational bonds and loyalties
  • Loyalty and trust
  • Developing presence, awareness and clarity
  • Fostering of perception and stillness
  • Energy, order and reality
  • Acknowledgement of the Hidden Symmetry

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Monika von Wietersheim

About your Systemic Constellations Facilitator

Monika G. von Wietersheim

Constellations Training: International Bert Hellinger Association training 2001-2003 in Zist, Germany by Bert Hellinger, Dr Albrecht Mahr, Dr Gunthard Weber, Dr Guni Leila Baxa, Hunter Beaumont amongst others.

Her special thanks reaches out to Dr Gunthard Weber, Dr Guni Leila Baxa and Heribert Doering-Meijer who each played a significant role on her path into constellations.

Monika refreshes her skills by regularly attending training workshops at the Wieslocher Institut fuer Systemische Loesungen, DGfS Badenwuerttemberg and African Constellations.

She holds a BA Degree with a focus on Psychology and History.

In her occupational field she is known a Systemic Constellations Facilitator with emphasis on

  • Family Constellations
  • Organisational Constellations
  • Systemic Constellations

By offering

  • One-to-one Consultations
  • Seminars

Since 2002 Monika has organised seminars in Namibia for international colleagues such as Ph.D. Ursula Franke, Ph.D. Guni Leila Baxa, Ph.D. Bertold Ulsamer, Dr Guenther & Jutta Montag.

Together with her colleague Rowena Mould she has organised two workshops with Stephan Hausner.

Monika offers one-to-one consultations and seminars in Swakopmund and Windhoek.

Holding Hands

Events & Gatherings


Mental flexibility – a different approach

  • 24 February 2018 - Swakopmund

Systemic Constellations Seminars
presented to you by
Heribert Doering-Meijer & Monika von Wietersheim

  • Block 1: 9 - 11 March 2018 in Central Namibia
  • Block 2: 16 – 18 March 2018 in Swakopmund

Symptoms in constellations

  • 28 April 2018 - Windhoek

Organisational Constellations – Hidden symmetries in management

  • 30 June 2018 - Swakopmund

Building bridges between schools and families

  • 18 August 2018 - Swakopmund

Systemic constellations with the ‘miracle’ question

  • 27 October 2018 - Windhoek
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